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Meet someone actually worth your time.
AI-matched on values, not photos. Real singles events where you actually meet — not another feed to swipe through.
Now matching in New York City · also live in Chicago · Miami · Houston · SF · LA
No swiping Block & report from day one No pay-to-play matches
AI matched, seven dimensions.
Values · Life vision · Family · Money · Lifestyle · Emotional · Growth
Built around women's safety
Dating should never feel unsafe. Every feature below is live today — and our safety roadmap is guided by the women who use Nonna Picks. Inclusive for everyone, designed so women stay in control.
Talk before you share your number
Send in-app voice notes — hear someone's voice and get comfortable without ever giving out your phone number.
Selfie verification
Members can verify with a live selfie and earn a badge, so you know a real person is behind the profile.
One-tap block & report
Block or report from any profile or chat. Blocking is instant and mutual — they can't see you or contact you again.
Only matches can message you
No unsolicited DMs. You're only contacted by people you've matched with, and harassment-by-volume is rate-limited automatically.
Emergency contact
Add a trusted contact for real-world date safety — kept private and fully under your control.
Safety Center
Plain-English guidance for chatting, first dates, and spotting scams — written for how women actually date.
A woman with feedback on safety? We build with you — write to hello@nonnapicks.com.
How Nonna works
Three steps from sign-up to your first real conversation.
Take Nonna's AI matching quiz
Three short sections across values, lifestyle, and personality. Stop after Part 1 — your matches already work.
See who you actually match with
Every profile shows your AI match score across seven dimensions, so you know why before you say hello.
Chat in-app or meet in person
Message your matches privately, or come to a local dinner, walk, or meetup where they show up too.
Events live in NYC today — rolling out city by city.
Nonna Picks isn't for everyone
That's on purpose. The fastest way to know if this is your app: read both lists.
This is for you if
- You want a relationship, not a rotation.
- You'd rather read someone's values than guess from six photos.
- You want to see why you match — the actual score — before you say hello.
- You'd meet at a board-game night or a Sunday walk sooner than a 1am bar.
- You want verification, blocking, and message control on by default.Not sold back to you as a premium perk.
- You'd take five real conversations over fifty dead ones.
This probably isn't for you if
- You're looking for something casual tonight.
- Photos are the only thing you want to be matched on.
- You'd rather not answer a few honest questions about what you want.
- You expect to message people who never matched with you.You can't — and that's the point.
AI matches you can actually see
Every profile shows the real score across all seven dimensions — so you know why before you say hello.
Overall fit at a glance
An AI match score, match type, and a radar view across every dimension.
Every dimension, spelled out
A real percentage per dimension — plus the specific differences worth a conversation early.
Depth no other app shows
A Green Flag score for healthy patterns, and a Relationship Readiness read on where they are.
Meet at a real event
Local dinners, walks, and meetups so the first conversation isn't through a screen.
Play Match Hunt at every Nonna event
Nonna reveals your top match in the room one clue at a time. Find them before anyone else does — only at Nonna events.
Events live in NYC today — rolling out city by city.
Use Nonna like an app
Add it to your home screen — full-screen, one tap, no App Store.
Native iOS & Android apps coming soon.
Ready to meet your people?
Joining, matching, and messaging are free. Start today.
Create your free accountWould Nonna match you two?
Take a 2-minute quiz, send the link to a crush, a match, or a friend — and you'll both see your AI match score. It's how Nonna matches, minus the guesswork.
Check your match →Not in your city yet?
Nonna Picks is live in NYC, Chicago, Miami, Houston, SF, and LA. Drop your email and you'll be first to know the moment we open near you.